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Nighttime Startle and the 2 a.m. Wake Up
Waking at 2 a.m. can feel like your body has slammed the alarm button. Your heart thumps, thoughts speed up, and sleep feels far away. If this is familiar, you are not broken. Your nervous system is doing a very good job of trying to keep you safe at the wrong time. EMDR-informed strategies can help your system stand down, so you can return to rest.
Deborah Marks
Oct 104 min read


Anger: what it's telling you and how to work with it
Anger gets a bad reputation, yet it is one of the most useful emotions you have. It signals that something feels unfair, unsafe, or out of alignment with your values. When anger is ignored or pushed down, it tends to leak out as sarcasm, irritability, or shutdown.
Deborah Marks
Oct 94 min read


What is an anchor in mental health?
An anchor is a reliable cue, practice, or relationship that helps you steady your nervous system when emotions surge. Think of it as the thing you reach for when stress pulls you off course, a simple touchstone that brings you back to the present with a little more safety and choice.
Deborah Marks
Oct 74 min read


The Psychology of Waiting
Waiting can feel prickly, noisy, and strangely exhausting. A five minute delay can feel like fifty, especially when it touches something important such as health results, school feedback, a reply from someone you care about, or an application that matters. If you have ever wondered why waiting feels bigger than the clock says, you are not alone.
Deborah Marks
Sep 264 min read


Loneliness vs. Solitude: Why the Difference Matters in Therapy
Feeling alone is not the same as being alone. In therapy, this distinction shapes how we assess risk, build resilience, and coach practical skills for nervous system regulation. Loneliness is the pain of disconnection, even when people are nearby. Solitude is restorative, intentional time with oneself.
Deborah Marks
Sep 233 min read


Self-Reflection for Mental Health
If life feels busy and noisy, reflection offers something rare: a quiet room inside your day. Thoughtful reflection helps you notice what you feel, understand why you react the way you do, and choose your next step with clarity. It is simple, accessible, and surprisingly powerful when you make it part of everyday life.
Deborah Marks
Sep 223 min read


Understanding PTSD
PTSD is a mental health condition that develops after exposure to trauma. While many people experience temporary distress after a traumatic event, PTSD occurs when these symptoms persist for more than a month and significantly interfere with daily life
Deborah Marks
Sep 32 min read


Integrating Internal Family Systems (IFS) with EMDR for Deeper Healing
Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) are two powerful approaches to trauma therapy. Each is effective in its own right, but when integrated, they can create a deeper and more compassionate pathway to healing.
Deborah Marks
Aug 83 min read


Therapy for First Responders: Supporting Those Who Support Us
First responders face what most of us cannot imagine. Who supports the supporters?
Deborah Marks
Jun 192 min read


You Don’t Need a Referral: Accessing Private Therapy on the Gold Coast
There’s a common misconception that you need a GP referral or a mental health plan to start therapy.
While that’s true for Medicare-funded services, private therapy works differently — and far more flexibly.
Deborah Marks
Jun 181 min read


Which Type of Therapy Is Right for Me?
With so many therapy options—CBT, Person-Centred, IPT, Psychodynamic—it’s normal to feel overwhelmed. But you don’t need to have it all figured out. Therapy isn’t one-size-fits-all.
Deborah Marks
Jun 51 min read


EMDR: A Powerful Therapy for Trauma
Heard of EMDR but not sure what it is? Here's how it helps people heal from trauma.
Deborah Marks
May 161 min read


Is Therapy Right for Me?
You don’t need to be in crisis to benefit from therapy. Learn who therapy can help—and how.
Deborah Marks
May 131 min read


5 Grounding Techniques for Anxiety
5 Grounding Techniques for Anxiety You Can Try Today
Deborah Marks
May 121 min read


What to Expect in Your First Therapy Session
What to Expect in Your First Therapy Session
Deborah Marks
May 91 min read