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Nighttime Startle and the 2 a.m. Wake Up
Waking at 2 a.m. can feel like your body has slammed the alarm button. Your heart thumps, thoughts speed up, and sleep feels far away. If this is familiar, you are not broken. Your nervous system is doing a very good job of trying to keep you safe at the wrong time. EMDR-informed strategies can help your system stand down, so you can return to rest.
Deborah Marks
Oct 104 min read


Anger: what it's telling you and how to work with it
Anger gets a bad reputation, yet it is one of the most useful emotions you have. It signals that something feels unfair, unsafe, or out of alignment with your values. When anger is ignored or pushed down, it tends to leak out as sarcasm, irritability, or shutdown.
Deborah Marks
Oct 94 min read


Parental Estrangement
Parental estrangement is more common than most people think, yet it is rarely spoken about openly. Whether you have stepped back from a parent to protect your wellbeing, or a parent has withdrawn from you, the experience can feel confusing, isolating, and heavy. This article offers a calm, practical look at why estrangement happens, how to care for yourself through it, and what a thoughtful path forward can look like, with or without contact.
Deborah Marks
Oct 84 min read


What is an anchor in mental health?
An anchor is a reliable cue, practice, or relationship that helps you steady your nervous system when emotions surge. Think of it as the thing you reach for when stress pulls you off course, a simple touchstone that brings you back to the present with a little more safety and choice.
Deborah Marks
Oct 74 min read


Back to School For Parents
Back to school does not start at the stationery aisle, it starts with your nervous system. Small, body-based practices help families move from holiday rhythm to school rhythm with more calm and connection. Here is a simple plan you can start today, plus when to get extra support.
Deborah Marks
Oct 64 min read


Micro-volunteering for Mental Health
We often think volunteering needs a whole Saturday, a roster, or a uniform. Micro-volunteering flips that story. It is bite-sized care you can offer in minutes, slotted between school drop off and emails, or while the kettle boils. These small acts may be short, but they are still powerful, and they can brighten your day while helping someone else.
Deborah Marks
Oct 13 min read