Understanding Eating Disorders
- Deborah Marks
- Sep 25
- 3 min read
Compassion, Recovery, and Support

Eating disorders are often misunderstood. They are not simply about food, weight, or appearance, but complex mental health conditions that affect thoughts, feelings, and behaviours around eating and body image. For many, they develop as a way of coping with overwhelming emotions such as stress or trauma. By opening up conversations about eating disorders, we can reduce stigma and create pathways toward healing and recovery.
What Are Eating Disorders?
Eating disorders include conditions such as anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, binge eating disorder, and avoidant or restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID). Each has unique features, but all involve an unhealthy relationship with food, body image, and self-worth. These struggles are not choices or lifestyle decisions, but serious health conditions that require understanding and appropriate care.
It is important to recognise that eating disorders can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. They are often hidden, with individuals working hard to mask their symptoms out of fear, shame, or a desire to maintain control. This makes early awareness and compassionate support essential.
"These struggles are not choices or lifestyle decisions"
Why Eating Disorders Matter
Eating disorders affect both physical and emotional wellbeing. Beyond the visible impact on eating behaviours, they can contribute to anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and difficulties with concentration and relationships. Physically, they may lead to malnutrition, heart complications, and other serious health issues if left untreated.
Yet there is hope. With the right support, people living with eating disorders can recover. Therapy, medical care, and supportive relationships all play a role in helping individuals rebuild a healthier relationship with food and themselves.
"With the right support, people living with eating disorders can recover."
How Therapy Can Help
Therapy offers a safe and supportive environment to explore the underlying emotions, beliefs, and experiences that contribute to disordered eating. Approaches such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), EMDR, and Person-Centred Therapy can be particularly helpful in addressing both the behaviours and the emotional roots of eating disorders.
Therapy is not about judgment. It is about creating space for understanding, reducing shame, and supporting each step toward healing. Whether the goal is full recovery or finding better ways to cope, therapy provides guidance and tools for lasting change.
Supporting Someone You Care About
If someone you love is experiencing an eating disorder, it can feel overwhelming to know what to do. Compassion and patience are key. Offering a listening ear without judgment, encouraging professional support, and reminding them they are not alone can make a meaningful difference.
Recovery is rarely linear. It may involve setbacks and challenges, but with encouragement and consistent support, progress is possible.
"Compassion and patience are key... and reminding them they are not alone can make a meaningful difference."
You Are Not Alone
If you are living with an eating disorder or supporting someone who is, it is important to know that help is available. You do not need to face this alone. Recovery takes time, but every small step matters.
At Hope Prevails on the Gold Coast, we offer compassionate and professional therapy to support individuals living with eating disorders and the challenges that surround them. If you or someone you love is struggling, reach out today to start the journey toward recovery. Contact us to book an appointment and take the first step toward a healthier, more hopeful future.



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