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Why “Doing Nothing” is a Powerful Mental Health Tool
In a world that praises productivity and busyness, the idea of “doing nothing” can feel uncomfortable or even wrong. Many people associate rest with laziness, fearing that slowing down means falling behind. But from a mental health perspective, the practice of intentional rest is not only beneficial, it’s essential.
Deborah Marks
Sep 172 min read


Decision-Making and Intuition: Balancing Gut Feelings With Rational Thought
In life, we are constantly faced with decisions: big and small. From choosing what to eat for lunch to making career or relationship choices, decision-making is woven into every part of our daily experience. Yet many people wrestle with the question: Should I trust my gut feeling, or should I weigh the logic and facts?
Deborah Marks
Sep 152 min read


The Psychology of Values: Unlocking Better Mental Health
Every person has a unique set of values that guide their choices, shape their relationships, and influence their sense of purpose. These values are not just abstract beliefs; they serve as the foundation of our wellbeing. When our daily lives align with what we value most, we tend to feel more balanced, fulfilled, and mentally healthy. When there is a disconnect, however, stress, anxiety, and dissatisfaction often arise.
Deborah Marks
Sep 123 min read


The Psychology of Nostalgia: Why We Crave the Past in Stressful Times
Nostalgia often sneaks up on us in surprising ways. It might be a song from our teenage years, a scent that reminds us of childhood, or a photo that instantly transports us to a simpler time. In moments of stress or uncertainty, many people find themselves craving these comforting glimpses of the past. But why is nostalgia so powerful, and how can it be used therapeutically to support mental health?
Deborah Marks
Sep 112 min read


The Power of Understanding Your Emotions
Many people move through their day without pausing to notice how they truly feel. Between work, family, and constant distractions, emotions can get buried or brushed aside. Yet emotions are powerful signals. They tell us what we need, guide our decisions, and shape our relationships.
Deborah Marks
Sep 53 min read


Guilt and Mental Health
Guilt is one of the most powerful emotions we experience. At its core, it arises when we believe we have done something wrong, let someone down, or failed to meet our own standards. In small doses, guilt can be constructive, guiding us to repair relationships or make better choices. However, when guilt becomes excessive, misplaced, or chronic, it can weigh heavily on our mental health.
Deborah Marks
Sep 43 min read


Understanding PTSD
PTSD is a mental health condition that develops after exposure to trauma. While many people experience temporary distress after a traumatic event, PTSD occurs when these symptoms persist for more than a month and significantly interfere with daily life
Deborah Marks
Sep 32 min read


Micro-Moments of Connection: Small Interactions That Improve Wellbeing
It’s human nature to underestimate the power of small gestures, but their impact on mental health is profound. Each positive interaction helps release oxytocin, the hormone that fosters trust and reduces stress. In a world where loneliness and disconnection are rising concerns, even a passing moment of connection can help lower anxiety, lift mood, and remind us that we’re not alone.
Deborah Marks
Sep 13 min read


The Mental Health Impact of Music and Soundscapes: Linking Neuroscience with Therapy Practice
Think back to a time when a song gave you goosebumps, or the sound of waves instantly calmed your mind. Music and soundscapes have a profound ability to shape our emotions, focus, and even our physical state. But this isn’t just a pleasant coincidence; neuroscience shows us that sound directly influences the brain in ways that can support healing and emotional wellbeing.
Deborah Marks
Aug 283 min read


What Does It Mean to Create Space for Healing?
Healing is not something that happens overnight, and it is rarely a straight line. For many people, the idea of “creating space for healing” feels abstract, something nice in theory but hard to practice in daily life. Yet, this idea is at the heart of emotional wellbeing, recovery, and personal growth.
Deborah Marks
Aug 273 min read


The Rise of “Toxic Positivity”: When Good Vibes Become Harmful
In today’s culture of Instagram quotes, TikTok trends, and quick-fix self-help advice, positivity is often portrayed as the cure for everything. While optimism has many proven benefits, there is a growing problem when positivity becomes forced, dismissive, or used to suppress genuine emotions.
Deborah Marks
Aug 253 min read


Understanding Attachment Styles in Relationships: How Therapy Can Help
Our relationships are deeply influenced by the way we connect with others, often shaped by experiences from early childhood. This connection pattern, known as our attachment style, can profoundly impact romantic relationships, friendships, and family dynamics.
Deborah Marks
Aug 212 min read


Impacts of Hormones on Mental Health
Hormones are chemical messengers that influence nearly every system in the body, including the brain. While they are most often associated with physical functions such as growth, metabolism, or reproduction, hormones also play a significant role in shaping our moods, emotions, and mental wellbeing. Understanding this connection can help us better manage stress, recognise changes in our mental health, and seek support when needed.
Deborah Marks
Aug 193 min read


Invisible Storms: How Anxiety Shows Up in Everyday Life
When people think of anxiety, they often imagine panic attacks, racing thoughts, or a constant sense of fear. And yes, these are real and common experiences. But anxiety doesn’t always announce itself so loudly.
Deborah Marks
Aug 152 min read


Why Am I So Tired of Being Strong?
Being called “strong” is usually meant as a compliment. Friends admire how you hold it together, family relies on you in a crisis, and colleagues see you as dependable. You are the person who shows up, holds everyone else’s pieces together, and rarely lets anyone see you struggle.
Deborah Marks
Aug 143 min read


What Is Self-Esteem? Understanding Its Role in Mental Health and Wellbeing
Self-esteem is the way we perceive and value ourselves. It’s shaped by our beliefs, experiences, relationships, and the messages we’ve received over time. At its core, self-esteem influences how we treat ourselves, how we let others treat us, and how we respond to life’s challenges.
Deborah Marks
Aug 52 min read


How Alcohol Affects a Person’s Mental Health
For many Australians, having a drink is part of how we relax or connect socially. But when alcohol use becomes regular or excessive, it can start to take a toll on more than just the body. It deeply affects the brain, mood, emotions, and relationships, often in ways that aren’t obvious until things feel overwhelming.
Deborah Marks
Jul 313 min read


Understanding Emotional Safety: Inside and Outside the Therapy Room
Emotional safety is the foundation of all healthy relationships. Whether you are sharing a vulnerable thought with a friend or working through trauma in therapy, the feeling of being emotionally safe (seen, heard, and respected without fear of judgment or harm) is what allows you to show up fully and authentically.
Deborah Marks
Jul 303 min read


What Is an Advocate, and Why Having One Can Make All the Difference
In the context of mental health and therapy, an advocate is someone who supports, speaks up for, or stands beside another person, especially when that person may feel overwhelmed, uncertain, or unheard.
Deborah Marks
Jul 293 min read


Supporting Someone Experiencing Emotional Distress: A Practical and Compassionate Guide
It can be difficult and distressing to witness someone you care about struggling with intense or persistent emotional pain. Whether they are experiencing sadness, anxiety, anger, hopelessness, or general overwhelm, the desire to help is natural. Still, many people feel uncertain about what to say or how to offer meaningful support.
Deborah Marks
Jul 183 min read