Therapy and Support for Neurodivergent Individuals: Celebrating Difference, Not Fixing It
- Deborah Marks
- Jun 30
- 3 min read
Being different isn’t a deficit. And therapy shouldn’t feel like trying to be someone you’re not.
At Hope Prevails, I offer therapeutic support for neurodivergent children, teenagers, and adults, whether they’ve been formally diagnosed with Autism or ADHD or relate to traits such as sensory sensitivity, emotional intensity, or differences in thinking and relating.
Therapy is not about changing or “normalising” neurodivergent people. It’s about understanding how your brain works, what supports your wellbeing, and how you can live in alignment with your strengths, identity, and needs.
"Therapy is not about changing or “normalising” neurodivergent people."

What does it mean to be neurodivergent?
Neurodivergence is an umbrella term that includes a range of neurological differences, such as:
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
Sensory Processing Disorder
Tourette Syndrome
Dyslexia or learning differences
Intellectual disability
A mix of overlapping or undiagnosed traits
"Every neurodivergent person is different"
Every neurodivergent person is different; some may feel deeply overwhelmed by noise or touch, while creative projects may energise others but struggle to organise time. Many navigate invisible stress from constantly masking or trying to “fit in” with social expectations that were never built for them.
How can therapy help?
Therapy for neurodivergent clients is not a one-size-fits-all approach. It's personalised, respectful, and neuroaffirming. The focus is on supporting the individual, not changing them.
Here are some areas where therapy can be helpful:
1. Emotional regulation and self-Awareness
Many neurodivergent clients feel emotions deeply. Therapy can help children and adults learn how to name their feelings, communicate them safely, and use calming techniques that suit their unique nervous system.
2. Managing executive functioning
Planning, organising, staying on task, or remembering routines can be hard. Therapy can support you or your child to find strategies that make life feel less overwhelming, without shame or unrealistic expectations.
3. Reducing sensory overload and meltdowns
Therapy can help you recognise sensory triggers, create calming environments, and learn how to recover after feeling overloaded. For parents, it can offer tools to support children through shutdowns or meltdowns with empathy.
4. Social connection without masking
Instead of forcing “appropriate” behaviour, therapy helps clients explore social needs in ways that feel safe, meaningful, and true to who they are. We focus on building relationships, not scripts.
5. Identity, self-esteem, and late diagnosis
For many teens and adults, understanding that you are neurodivergent can bring relief, but also grief, confusion, or regret. Therapy creates a space to process what that identity means to you and to rebuild a sense of self-worth.
6. Support for parents and carers
If you’re a parent navigating diagnosis, behaviour challenges, or school issues, therapy can help you better understand your child’s world. We focus on compassion over compliance, co-regulation over control.
Therapy that fits your needs - not the other way around
At Hope Prevails, I draw from a range of therapeutic approaches depending on your or your child’s needs:
Person-centred and strengths-based therapy
Psychoeducation to help understand neurodivergent traits and responses
EMDR, especially for those with trauma related to exclusion, bullying, or misdiagnosis
Modified CBT, adapted for sensory and processing differences
Mindfulness and somatic techniques to support regulation and grounding
Narrative Therapy to help rewrite internalised stories of shame or not being “enough”
Therapy is offered in a sensory-aware space, with flexible pacing and full respect for preferred communication styles.

You are not broken. And you are not alone.
Whether you’re a parent wondering how to support your child, a teenager figuring out how to unmask safely, or an adult coming to terms with a recent diagnosis, therapy can be a safe place to land.
You deserve support that doesn’t try to change who you are, but instead helps you flourish as the person you’ve always been.
"You deserve support that doesn’t try to change who you are, but instead helps you flourish as the person you’ve always been."
Let’s walk this path together
I offer therapy in-person on the Gold Coast or via telehealth for individuals and families navigating neurodivergence.
Ready to talk?
Visit https://www.hopeprevails.com.au/contact-8 to book an appointment or get in touch for a confidential chat.



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